Posts by stan livedeath

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My wife and I have begun our fade

by James Jack in

i haven’t posted in awhile.

my wife asked me after the year 2000 came and went without fanfare(because the wt organization said all the “new world” would be here within this 20th century would end), “ what would it take for you to leave the truth?”.

my reply was “ if i turn 60 in this “system of things”.

stan livedeath

DesirousOfChangean hour ago

Growing old...? ive been young for almost 72 years. ~ Stan

I hate to burst your bubble, Stan, but NO ONE considers 72 to be "young".

my wife does.

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What happens to bethel members who get sick?

by JimmyYoung in

so i am sure if you are at bethel and have the flu you just get time or what ever to recover, but what about serious sickness.

say you get cancer or some possible terminal illness?

what happens?.

stan livedeath

John Blaney was brought into Bethel when he got old.

we had JB as our circo in the early 70's..isle of wight UK. daft as a box of lights. but you couldnt help but like him. my daughter--pre school age--called him Brother Blimey.

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Marital sex

by Tedeily in

my wife and i have always shared naked photos respectfully over the years.

being the only thing to fill that void in our relationship due to being apart.

recently my wife has become jehovah, and we’re not sure if my wife is allowed to respectfully share herself with me while i am away.

stan livedeath

Tedeily

Jusr remind your wife that under jehovahs rules for marrage that you..the husband...are head of the household, and what you say goes.

There..fixed that for you.

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Can't deny my JW's past

by StephaneLaliberte in

today was a beautiful day and so, decided to drive by my old town with my wife.

at some point, she asked me to stop talking about jws to which i said: i'm talking about were i lived, what i did and who i knew.

its just that all of it was jws!

stan livedeath

@Punk:

Pal. (Looks at me as if I'm didlow)

i think you need to translate that one.

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Ex JW of 30 years , still messed up from it

by Doubledecker in

jw
friends

hi , this is my first post .. i left jws 30 years ago as 18 year old unbaptised youth and after the initial fallout from leaving pretty much put the whole thing in a box and buried it .. however , i am now starting to realise how much the doomsday messages and the ‘them and us’ doctrines that’s fed to you from birth has remained in my core beliefs.. how have others managed to reprogram themselves ?.

thanks for reading , have a good day .

dd.

stan livedeath

an hour agoDD to quote properly, copy someones comment
Paste it into the comment box first , continue on typing out your own reply
then to finish , highlight the person's comment and click the Quote link at the top menu and you will see that it creates its own yellow box and wallah

thanks Fink--i never knew that

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Ex JW of 30 years , still messed up from it

by Doubledecker in

jw
friends

hi , this is my first post .. i left jws 30 years ago as 18 year old unbaptised youth and after the initial fallout from leaving pretty much put the whole thing in a box and buried it .. however , i am now starting to realise how much the doomsday messages and the ‘them and us’ doctrines that’s fed to you from birth has remained in my core beliefs.. how have others managed to reprogram themselves ?.

thanks for reading , have a good day .

dd.

stan livedeath

hi Double decker--a warm welcome here

you:" has remained in my core beliefs."

would you care to say what your core beliefs are ?

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My husband and I told our families we want to disassociate

by erinee in

well, these stories are always fun, right?

let me share mine.. my husband and have been pimo for 2 years.

inactive for one year.

stan livedeath

hello Erinee--welcome to the forum.

: and welcome to the rest of your life.

hope to read a lot more from you!

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Why can't we have a kingdom hall?

by road to nowhere in

i was musing on how many small churches there are.

a single congregation made of moderate income people.

often the pastor has a job on the side.

stan livedeath

i was a baptised teenager in the 60's..in birmingham UK. there were 3 circuits that covered the area; so about 30 congregations i imagine. very few had their own hall. most rented school halls, community buildings or anything they could find. it was the dream of most dubs to have their own halls..something to aspire to. it all started to happen in the 70's.

ive no idea how many have recently been stolen.

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